7 percenters are great communicators.  This means they understand that people are different and they have effective tools for communicating despite these differences. Keep in mind that while extroverts thrive in social settings, this setting is an energy drain for introverts.  A common misconception is that introverts are shy and don’t like to talk.  That’s not the case.  Think of it as how they like to recharge after a draining day.  An extrovert recharges by being out among people.  An introvert recharges by being at home. Introverts can present an interesting communication challenge.  Often most comfortable in familiar surroundings and ...

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We’ve all heard that leaders are decisive. They makes decisions and they make them quickly. It seems that I’ve heard this a million times. And that’s why a study by Kimberlee Weaver, a psychologist at Virginia Polytechnic University, caught my attention. Weaver and her colleagues found something interesting that is important to decision-makers everywhere. When we hear an opinion over and over again, it doesn’t matter if we hear it from different people or the same person multiple times, our brains simply tally up each occurrence of the opinion. Are brains aren’t trying to lead us astray, they’re just computing ...

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My wife was having a medical procedure and it was one of those things that while we could get likely scenarios from our doctors, we wouldn’t know exactly what her situation was going to be until the day of the procedure. The doctors recommended waiting until we had the best information (the day of the procedure) and decide what we wanted to do right before the procedure. This last minute decision making about something so important, didn’t sit well with us. Our doctors were willing to talk to us a good deal about the general situation. One of them even ...

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You’ve likely heard the saying often attributed to Henry Ford, “Whether you believe you can or can’t do a thing, you’re right.” And I think this is terribly insightful and important when developing your personal effectiveness. I can’t tell you how often I come across people who say things like, “I’m just no good at public speaking.” This is a big obstacle for a lot of people. And here’s the problem with the belief that you’re not good at public speaking…you’ll likely create more of what you expect in the future. This is the big problem with negative beliefs about ...

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You may have seen the episode of Seinfeld where Jerry Seinfeld jokes about how most people would rather be in the casket than delivering the eulogy. Now this may not literally be the case, but when surveyed, a fear of public speaking ranks higher than a fear of death. For many people standing up and giving a presentation to a group of people is a truly terrifying experience. If you love making presentations, then I have some good news for you, if you hate it, then my news is not so great. In order to be a 7 percenter, a top performer, ...

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